Had quite a pleasant night yesterday... since almost everyone was quite nice .. in fact there was only one irritant... nah ... it's over so i shld juz forget it....but i did tried my best... for the time being that was the best i can do... but in life not everyone can accept what u do... but i am juz wondering why some people have to do this.. to dampen someone else's mood....
It's definitely not a good feeling to be put down...when u've put in effort and tried ur best to do something for someone.... Is there any motive why some pple have to build their own happiness on someone else's misery? ... it's juz weird... does putting someone down with sarcastic comments and remarks make one feel good about him/herself.... ? Everyone is brought up in different ways... some people are more sensitive towards other people's feelings while others juz don't give a damn.... some people have manners whilst others don't ... that's juz a way of life... we get to meet different types of people in different walks of life.. in different situations.....
After this... i guess i noe how to deal with this type of people the next time round.... i was juz too slow in reaction.... juz sat there and smiled.... maybe at that point in time i juz did not wanna create any form of conflicts....? What's the point? .... anyway i juz need some pesticide to spray into whoever person who said those things....
However, i was lucky enuff that those people who were important to me appear to appreciate my efforts more...but i juz feel that if a person is really good then walk the talk... it's useless trying to put others down with sarcastic remarks when a person doesnt even have the guts to showcase what he or she has got.... if the person cant prove that he/she is better then does he even have the rights to pinpoint other people's mistakes with sarcastic remarks.... ?
But hang on for a moment... was there even a mistake in the first place? or was it juz another brainless remark by an inconsiderate fool who absolutely have no clue ? i'm not too sure bout that myself..
And furthermore..so what if the person is better in any way?... it's not a classroom..... I already have a professional to teach me the rights and wrongs....what i need is more time and guidance from him... to improve to a higher level....i do not need outsiders to tell me all that crap.... and besides this outsider do not even have the guts to walk the talk... so should i even take those remarks seriously? Jun.. ask me not to bother about such a person.....
Anyway... in this world many pple are like that .. so juz gotta get used to it.....