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Brenda
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Wednesday, December 31, 2008


Taken on 30th December 2008..

Taken using my phone as her camera's battery went flat...

A fun bitching session with my buddy colleague.. = )

*在过几个小时,
我就老一岁了
岁月不饶人
青春要把握!*

十二月三十一日



告别

挥挥手和2008年说 Bye Bye
然后笑一笑和2009 年说声Hello!

2008 年终于也到一个段落
不知不觉又到了告别的时候
并没有特别希望2008 年逗留
也没有特别期待2009
甚至连一点兴奋的感觉都没有

过了12点
2008年就永远消失
时光飞逝
留下来的只剩下
这365天的回忆

这一年
有笑也有泪
一眨眼
全都过去
变成了回忆

2009 会是一个新的开始
会发生什么事
就只能拭目以待

祝福大家
笑脸天天见
贵人天天出现
幸福会更明显
希望会永远在人间
好运会紧紧跟在身边!

我只想在2008年的最后一天
在这里写下一篇
为2008 年画下最完美的句点。。。

新年 快乐 !

=)



6:27:00 PM



Monday, December 29, 2008


十二月二十八日



尽力

不是
所有事情
都非得要求完美
尽力而为
其实才最美


虽然
不算完美无暇
但总算
尽力用心
将表演呈现


其实
只要经历过
真的尽力过
就不必在乎结果


对我来说
拥有的每一个机会

都是一种享受。。








12:26:00 AM



Saturday, December 27, 2008


十二月二十七日



珍贵

第一次
的短程旅行
一路上的贴心
让我开心


而我
只想在二十七日结束前
把这一天
重新温习
然后记录在这里
作为我们最珍贵的纪念


一切都值得
因为
至少在今天结束前
我们都笑了。。。


期待更多的关心
更多的细心


也祝我们明日演出成功!
=)


11:05:00 PM



Wednesday, December 24, 2008


十二月二十三日



知道

简讯经常收不到
脸孔经常看不到

简讯怎么都收不到
我比谁都还要苦恼

在另一端的你
可否知道
想念可以无可救药
也可否感应得到
彼此之间的心跳
我想应该很难办到

恨不得与你困在同一个岛
让你从此不能逃...



12:46:00 AM



Tuesday, December 23, 2008


十二月二十二日

晴/雨

忙碌

你的忙碌
我的忙碌
为了生活
大家都忙得如此无助

你没空
我没空
为了生活
把大家搞得都糊涂

沟通?
免了。。
没空

有时候的我
走着路
看见熟悉面孔
就连打个招呼
都会觉得辛苦

在无形中
因为忙碌
也会不小心地疏忽
情人之间的照顾

时间的残缺
就用温柔来弥补

需要依赖的人
往往最脆弱

太自由地过
也可以是一种痛

软弱的时候
谁没有?

无助的时候
谁 会陪我到最后?

寂寞关头
又有谁会在左右?

沉默的表达方式
是个错误
沟通
不应该是
沉默

僵持得太久
害怕到最后
什么都没有

执著太久
害怕到最后
一无所有

勾勾手
说好别再沉默
点点头
说好别再隐藏
心中所有的感受
也从此,
不可以闪躲
不可以忘记对彼此的承诺



12:47:00 AM



Saturday, December 20, 2008


十二月二十日



字体

用字体
来描述我的心情

用一画一笔
来表达所有思绪

字体可以
清楚表达我的心意

不喜欢用言语
只因每次我用言语
气氛就像是在下雨

我的快乐
不可能交给谁来负责
快乐
也不可能是生存的规则
因为就算没有快乐
人还是照样活着
地球还是不断旋转着



能够真正懂我的心的
世上会有几个?


能够真正了解我的
世上又会有几个?


真正关心我的
又是否真的存在着?

无需
再继续犹豫着
因为我的心情永远只能往这里搁...




8:39:00 PM



Thursday, December 18, 2008


十二月十八日



争吵

今天天气很晴朗
但我的心情却沮丧
冲口而出的话
让我心里受了伤

原来
争吵那么难
维系感情
一点都不简单

房间里
弥漫着伤感的空气
难过是主题
争执是我们的话题

我屏住呼吸
我尽量压抑
默默对自己生气
默默对自己叹气

泪水在眼里
你都没留意
我所有的伤心
你一样没注意
我装得不在意
继续欺骗自己
但难过却挥之不去

虽然
后来在电话亭里
听到你的一句对不起
阴影却仍然埋在心里


伤人的情节也一样在心里
一幕都没办法被抹去
残忍地
残留在记忆里

很想告诉你
我的表情虽然没说明
但其实
我比谁都还在意

细心的你
体贴的你
到底去了哪里?

我想笑
我想逃
我想跑
可惜我一个都做不到

争吵
真的很难熬

累了
能不能别再吵了...


11:47:00 PM





十二月十七日



乌鸦嘴

口无遮拦的一张嘴
让身边人如此受罪
只会出一张嘴
那么自以为
也不照照镜子
看看自己是否配不配

奇怪
怎么那张嘴
怎么说都不会累
我听了都厌倦
你不累
我耳根都受罪

用上这张嘴
伤人的话语说得如此干脆
难道一点也不惭愧?
是不是看我如此地狼狈
所以觉得不说太浪费?

真想现在马上就喝醉
打打醉拳
狠狠揍你两三拳
替你消灾又减罪
把你瞬间也搞得一样狼狈
也可以算公德一件
相信没人会有意见

如果张开你那伤人的嘴
能够让你快乐是神仙
你们说这样有多可悲?

没空要住嘴
有空要去睡
不要有空没空都
成为别人的累赘

因为工作已经很累
你为何要让我更疲惫?
还好意思问我
最近怎么变憔悴?

见高就拜
见低就踩
真 是干哪赛
世上没有谁比你更厉害?

求你马上立刻闭上你
这张口无遮拦的乌鸦嘴
因为对大家而言,
将会是最可贵!

<送给世界上最“可爱的乌鸦”>
p/s: Wrote this yesterday out of anger, Pardon me for any form of crude element in the post...


10:30:00 PM



Tuesday, December 16, 2008


十二月十六日





人生活得真是累
工作忙得太疲惫
为了金钱而活得狼狈
为了感情而搞得颓废
把自己弄得如此憔悴
让自己活得像是在受罪

其实,
想吃就不要嫌太贵
想穿就不要说浪费
也不必因为挥霍而感到惭愧
有空搞搞暧昧
累了就倒头大睡

难过可以找朋友安慰
有空可以找爱人约会
但找爱人也得看个性配不配
也不能长期成为情人的累赘
天啊,你说做人有多累!

其实,
追求不一定要求最完美
天天快乐才最可贵
这样的生活你说有多完美

朋友,
让我们摊开胸怀
痛痛快快活得干脆
有必要时就要懂得闭上嘴
让有所谓一个一个都变无所谓
让我们的生活不要再那么乏味!


9:06:00 PM



Monday, December 15, 2008


十二月十五日



恶性循环

期盼带来希望
希望带来失望
这是个恶性循环

希望越高
失望越高

昨日,
已深深体会到
希望所带来的失望

只因那陌生人的背影
真的好像好像他...

那背影是多么的像,
多么的真
根本不可思议

可不可以
别那么像

他瞬间把希望都崔灭
失望也就这样
汹涌地侵略...


9:30:00 AM



Sunday, December 14, 2008


十二月十四日



音乐

唯独
音乐能这样
不离不弃地陪着我

优美旋律
感人歌词
完美结合

音乐中,
每一行字
都深深感动我

形影不离的
这样亲密地陪伴着我
度过每一天
度过每一个孤独难熬的夜晚

只有音乐能够这样
培着 我
也只有音乐能够
这样无时无刻
感性地触动着我的心
感动我的心...


8:33:00 PM



Saturday, December 13, 2008


今日的收获...

一份好朋友的礼物

谢啦!

拖了好久时间
都没办法碰面
交换礼物
一直在想会是什么
原来是哆啦A梦 =)

小叮当
真可爱。。
=)

放在这与大家分享

下次
再来个
铜锣烧吧!^_^

十二月十三日

晴/雨

生活

不可能
一直留
你在身边
只能够
在很多时候
让你走远


只能接受
因为

这就是生活...


11:10:00 PM



Friday, December 12, 2008



今天是妈妈的生日!
祝她生日快乐
意外的蛋糕
但愿她会喜欢

=)

十二月十二日





想念
从他离开
视线的
那一刻开始


思念
也从
说再见的
那一刻开始


现在
正努力
试着去
戒掉这一切


戒掉
不停倒数的
坏习惯


戒掉
离别所
带来的不愉快


戒掉
统统都要戒掉

绝不能
让自己
变成一个

讨人厌的
寄生虫...



11:14:00 PM



Thursday, December 11, 2008



我是女王吗?
=)

亮晶晶的
我喜欢

意外的收获
我超喜欢

但背后的用意是个迷
他没说
所以我也不懂


十二月十一日



不舍

喜欢
被呵护的滋味
偏爱
被疼的感觉
说真的
被宠爱
谁不爱?

*时间过得太快
都还来不及
彻底体会
相处的每一刻
却又到了说再见
的时候,
次次却还是一样
那么不喜欢
说再见。。。*


11:47:00 PM



Wednesday, December 10, 2008


十二月十日



无聊
所以做了
一些测试
自己个性的小测验


蛮有趣的...=)

Quiz 1: Are You an Open Book?

Brenda is a Hardcover

Your score shows how much you value your privacy. Your emotions aren't out there in broad circulation -- you prefer to keep them hidden on the shelf. Clearly, there are many "chapters" of your life kept off-limits, even from close friends. This strategy can keep you from getting hurt by others, but there's a downside, too. With less intimacy, you might feel that your personal relationships are not very satisfying. It can be difficult for some people to open up to others, but perhaps you should choose a couple of chapters that aren't too personal and try sharing them with a close friend. Dust off that old volume and open it up -- you may find that your friend responds in a very positive way.

Quiz 2: Are You Naughty or Nice?

Brenda is On the Edge

We won't call the vice squad quite yet, but you're just a few crazy nights away from officially becoming "naughty." You've broken your share of rules — maybe had a few flings, taken some serious risks, embellished the truth every now and again to save your skin — but you're still nice when it counts. If it's dangerous, cruel, or really illegal, chances are you'll avoid it, which is probably just as it should be. We all like to walk on the wild side now and then (it sure can feel soooo good to be bad!), but it's important to strike a balance and keep your urges in check. Sounds like you're doing pretty well so far — way to walk the line!

Quiz 3: Do You Follow Your Heart or Your Head?

Brenda follows her heart- She's a Strong Romantic

Whether you planned it or not, you just can't help but follow your feelings when it comes to matters of l'amour. You're a passionate person who can't ignore things that fit you to a T — whether it's that perfect pair of jeans, a good cause, or the love of a lifetime.Sure, things don't always go according to plan, but with an irrepressible drive like yours, you'd better get used to it! Living life as a fake just isn't in the cards for you. So open up your arms and embrace what life throws your way — especially if it happens to be the man of your dreams!

Quiz 4: Personality test

Brenda belongs to type B personality
laid back, calm, never riled, takes the slow, steady, route


Quiz 5: Who's the Man of Your Dreams?

Brenda's test results:

The guy next door can be a lot more than the kid who played a great game of tag and buried you in snowballs. He can be the man of your dreams. A laidback and fun girl like you doesn't need a glass slipper or fancy jewels — you just want a guy who knows how to have a good time and knows how to handle what's important.You're the kind of girl who wants to marry her best friend, so you might not have to look far for the perfect guy for you. Whoever said you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince wasn't talking about you. Tag — you're it!

Quiz 6: Who's Your Type?

Brenda's type is the Goofball

Laughter is the way to your heart. A guy with a great sense of humor is definitely the one for you! You want a Goofball, someone who can laugh at himself and make you laugh, too. There's no bigger turn-off than a guy who takes himself too seriously. You know that if a guy is silly, he's generally self-confident and secure. Your man is a people magnet and everyone's favorite friend. There's never a dull moment with your jokester nearby. You crave excitement and laughter, and your goofball enhances those things inyour life. You probably think life is too short to spend it without a smile. Your goofy guy will ensure that that doesn't happen — his lighthearted and silly ways make everything a little bit brighter.


全部测验
准确度。。
大概有85%95 %左右吧!

:-p

taken from http://www.tickle.com/


11:03:00 PM



Tuesday, December 09, 2008



The Super Vain one..
Picture of a fat vain pig! haha
(Liked the lighting of this picture)
十二月九日


理想画面

窝在一起
腻在一起
天天拥抱
有多美好

甜甜微笑
百看不厌
甜言蜜语
百听不厌

细心
体贴
包容
一个不能少
这会有多美好..


11:39:00 PM



Sunday, December 07, 2008


十二月六日



找不到

表情也没有
话也不说出口

面对着我
好像只能沉默

适合的旋律
我未能找到

他的心
近日也未能感应到

我有多重要
想知道

我有多无奈
谁知道


12:40:00 AM



Saturday, December 06, 2008


十二月五日



两个

一个
拼命想要
更多的
呵护
更多的
重视
更多的
贴心
无微不至
的体贴与关怀

另一个

忽略了
那些
需要被照顾的感受
冷落了
需要被关怀的心
也似乎
没有勇气
开口
说出心中
最真的感受

过去那些敏感
都跑到哪去了

昨晚,
我似乎
怎么找也找不到...


12:16:00 AM



Thursday, December 04, 2008


十二月四日



一样

还是这样
一样将所有
感情都遮掩
不流露任何表情
一样没有
任何感性的言语

总之
一样
没有改变
没有不同

准备的惊喜
一样不会有
任何的表情或言语

无论
说什么
做什么
都是一样

令我
感觉是
那么的不踏实
那么的不重要

想听的话
还是一样那么想听

或许
就算
说一百遍
一万遍
对他而言
终究
是一个
不可能
的事



11:28:00 PM



Tuesday, December 02, 2008


Cute!
Cool!

Childish!

A kiddy picture illustrated by me during my Company course...
Purpose: To portray Racial Harmony
Title: 4 Hearts beating as one, regardless of race, religion ...
okie.. sounds like pledge le..:-p

Description: 4 people representing the different races, and them saying hello in 4 different languages..
with their hearts linked together beating as one!
sounds corny, but Fun process, its the only duration in which i am wide awake and alive..

Doing what primary school kids are doing can be entertaining too.....and surprisingly enjoyable..

the visit to the various religious and cultural sites were memorable, esp for the Sikh temple, the food provided was indeed unique, looks like a prata but does not taste like one, it was supposed to be eaten together with a reddish sourish curry like gravy that does not taste like curry at all.. and accompanied with white yogurt that finally taste like yogurt.. and a very sweet teh tarik ... haha.. :-) unique experience as we will never come across such food outside.. only available at the Sikh Temple... Uniquely and truly theirs... :-) Special ya... but jus not really used to the weird combination and the extreme sour taste...

I have also learnt the difference between buddhism and taoism...buddhism originated from India and Taoism from China.. haha .. :-)
and after a second visit to the chinatown heritage centre it reminded me how fortunate we are to be able to flush the toilet after use and the luxury of having well furnished kitchens, rooms and bathrooms with heaters..
Living conditions from the Past...
Our forefathers' living conditions...

Kitchen from the past...
Toilet from the olden days...

Bathroom from the past..

Its juz so realistic...

Its been so hot lately to the point in which i'm still perspiring even when its finally raining in the night..

Damn!
十二月二日

十分炎热

冷却
昨晚,
同样冷冷清清
热情渐渐冷却
天气虽
如此炎热
但我的热情
却渐渐在冷却

其实呢,
也不希奇
地点
时间
日期
自己程度
全部都不对

又怎能去吸引?
自我娱乐
还差不多
感触

*如果能拥有可爱的浪漫
再加上源源不断的甜言蜜语
应该会很棒吧?*


9:59:00 PM