Wednesday, November 20, 2013
As usual, when I need to vent my frustrations I come here.
Political shit happens in office .. Every office no matter how few the number of people there are .. When there are humans .. Politics exist .. Just as simple as that .. Today's juz a very good illustration of the pot calling the kettle black .. Humans tend to go easy on themselves and judge others critically when in the eye of a third party it's actually the same behavior/action. Well, even if there's any form of unhappiness in between the office beings, work life continues as per normal and this is usually known as acting professionally. Ironically sad but true .. But politics happened everywhere, perhaps it's diff background and upbringing .. Everyone's diff , friction occurs .. And unhappiness follows .. Life still goes on .. If u take frequent mc or urgent leave ur considered and deemed as the unprofessional immature individual, if that happens .. And u happen to accidentally or deliberately offend anyone that appraise u, oh wells ...ur putting ur own monetary benefits at risk ..
However, in life we can never satisfy everyone .. No one is obliged to serve anyone and no one shld be accountable towards anyone's unhappiness or happiness. No one shld be responsible for anyone's happiness or unhappiness. Sadly, most adults don't act their age. Showing attitude to induce guilt is definitely not a sensible thing to do when a good work relationship is important within any working environment.
Guess everyone need to learn emotion management. Towards the more despicable external parties, I'm still learning , but towards people working with me in office, I believe I have better management of my own emotions.
So as long as ur working .. Anywhere .. Office or not .. There are humans right ?!
Be prepared for politics .. Sometimes Even if you stay neutral, politics will still find u .. That's how domineering and scary with what humans can create together !
Most of the time, there is no solution, so when there is no solution to a problem. What do we do? For a living, we face it , we try to deal with it, we force ourselves to learn to live with it, whether or not we like its existence, we are left with not much choice , as we ironically are the ones who created it in the first place .. So tell me what rights have we to complain and whine?!
I think to move out of this place .. I need more strategic planning and more time to accumulate more money. Means as of now and the near future, I will still be somewhat physically stuck here. Due to financial and life commitments, it has taken away my right to just leave everything here for good.
It's partly work sometimes partly tired of dealing of any form of politics, isn't life already complicated enuff? Why do we all have to further complicate things?
The helpless one
11:14:00 PM
