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Friday, January 17, 2014

TGIF .. Finally it's end of Friday I've had a sucky sucky week with complain cases being thrown to me almost the whole of this week ! God damn ! How come people nowadays complain so much ! The down side of this job is .. We are always forced to take the blame for others' mistakes, and often sandwiched in between and forced to learn the art of rejection in a tactful manner!
Experience plays a part of cos I'm still learning the ropes ...learning to play by ear , no one method works for all .. Perhaps that's the interesting and challenging part of this job..

Past nights I'm having little or no sleep .. Cos of taking care of my old little doggy tmr to the vet's again .. Hope the injection and medication will help reduce all the weaknesses , Jia you Bambi I love u .. Willingly sacrificed rest juz for u

Jus a few days back I managed to thrash things out with him via texts I think I find it easier to express myself thru words then speech? Though ironically my job requires tremendous need to express in speech.. Guess I'm more equipped to converse verbally well in a formal manner but lousy in expressing my emotions and feelings well verbally.

I'm hoping we are both heading towards the correct direction together ..since now I've shared my thoughts with him, maintaining a relationship is nv easy and it always takes two hands to clap .. In every long relationship there is high possibility of taking each other for granted . I guess 2 way communication is crucial. I learnt that a lot from my job, guess it applies to relationships as well. At the very least I sensed an effort to change from him today, lesser complaints and more compromise, more patience, Hope this last.. I'm working on it too myself cos I'm def not perfect either ..
Im unsure about tomorrow, But as of this moment, I'm a contented girl.
I will remind myself the 5Cs constantly
1. Communicate
2. Compromise
3. Care
4. Cherish
5. Compliment

My wishes for 2014:
Career wise: Looking forward to enhanced monetary benefits, job advancements and smoother work processes to facilitate my work, less politics and more happiness

Relationship wise: hope for him to be happy and healthy, for us to be happy and to always rem to cherish and support each other always

Family and friends wise: Health to everyone I love . Especially for my daddy and Bambi
My mother ; to nag less , Aiko, to stay healthy and cute always

Self wise: I wish for health, wealth so as to have more chances to travel more and of cos more chances to perform ! ( improvements for guitar and singing)

:D

To be continued.....

11:31:00 PM

Monday, January 13, 2014

First post for 2014 .. Hopefully a good year for me *fingers crossed*

Guess being over familiar leads to taking things for granted .. It's juz human nature .. Time lapse okie I'm getting out of topic .. Having Monday blues already .. Wth ..the kind of urgency is juz not there anymore .. Guess I'm tired .. U r too .. Ranting as usual ..it's the art of accepting the imperfections ?
Effort is crucial .. It's still there but perhaps more on the diminishing side .. Enuff said .. Nightz

12:28:00 AM