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Monday, June 12, 2006

It was a happy day out with lao shi and the rest...:-p spent the most time with lao shi and jiajun though haha..it was fun.. :-p hope that they enjoyed it as much as i did... Time does flies when u r having fun.... :-p juz wanna say i really enjoyed their company... looking forward to our next gathering... :-p

Moving on to other matters... certain stuffs in life still sets me thinking.. how sme people have girlfriends but do not know how to treasure them.... is there a form of satisfaction derived from having an exceptionally close relationship with another girl behind their girlfriend's back? if not then why? I hope these people can sometimes put themselves into another party's shoes... if she were to do the same to them? i wonder how they will feel? It really says a lot about a person's character.. if u do not love her anymore.. let her go.. set her free to seek her own happiness? why tie her down when u are not prepared to give her the best u can... ? I think this is being disrespectful to relationships... if u are not prepared to be commited then dun go into a relationship why have to go out with other girls discreetly... ? I juz felt that this is unacceptable... and i have no respect for people like that..in my opinion two-timers are selfish people ..well. .. this is juz my own personal viewpoint... i have no intention to offend anyone...

With regards on the rumours i heard on my previous posts... well.. it's not important anymore... i juz realise that it's totally unfair to judge a person by a situation that i'm unsure of.. u never know when the other party who's spreading the rumours are speaking the truth or was it an extended version of the truth? I think that the best way to judge a person is using ur heart to feel.. judging him/her based on ur own opinions and views.. on ur personal experiences with that person and not judging a person based on certain external influences.. coz it might or might not be true... i think it's best to believe ur own experiences...

From my experiences... i might have misunderstood certain things initially.. a person's personal life should be kept personal...but the most important thing is that his/her personal life does not affect the way he/she treat his/her friends.. tt's important...:-p ... as long as care and concern still exist... the rest doesnt really matter. :-p Since care and concern are the basic necessity in a friendship.... it's a really lovely feeling when friends care for you .... are concern of u.. it's the small gestures that really matters... Well.. i already have no luck in relationships..so i hope to have friendships that will last for as long as possible... with my darling siu yuin.. shemin, lao shi and guitar family...:-p A person needs friends, family and tt special someone to be complete logically.... in my case since i dun do well in relationships so muz do better in the friendship and family area... sort of to fill up the empty space....

I once thought i found friendship with someone.. but end up we seemed to lost touch and can feel the kind of closeness is sort of lost forever.. tried to tok but can tell that this friendship is not important ...so many excuses to get away from going out together to catch up with life....that's what friends should be like catching up once in a while to know what's going on with each other's life.. friendship takes 2 hands to clap it's impossible for one person to sustain a friendship herself/himself...when u tried... and failed..disappointment sets in.... :-(

*Time says it all about a person... **

*Judge someone according to ur experiences with that person**

*Friendship between 2 people takes 2 hands to clap, it's impossible for one person to sustain a frienship all alone w/o the other party's support..**

*Dun underestimate ur abilities, have confdence in ur abilities.... but rem always not to be over confident.. to the extent that it irritates other pple**

Sunday

11.21pm

11-06-06

*Singing leads my soul... Guitar is a part of me..Music captivates me*

Cheers!

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